Sex can be a beautiful thing. I think I can be completely honest here and say that temporary encounters or sex without feelings is not for me. Don't get me wrong - I want my man to spank me, pull my hair, and fuck me raw, but I also want kisses, cuddles and soft fingertip strokes all over me. It's a balancing act. One that my baby can do VERY well.
It takes time to get to a point of comfortability for me. I don't have the highest self-esteem in the room most days, but Dirty Blog has helped tremendously. He literally wants me everywhere. I love when he just lies me down and runs his tongue along my entire body, while his hands stroke and grab me wherever he wants. After a very short time of doing this, his eyes are so hungry! He just enchants me with them and without even knowing it, I'm ultimately his.
Eye contact never really crossed my mind before I met Dirty Blog. I would just close my eyes and enjoy my physical feelings. I wasn't pretending who I was with was someone different, but I think I was hiding. Dirty Blog doesn't let me hide. And with him, I don't want to.
While this may be overly cliche and romantic, I feel like I'm sharing something much deeper with him than I have with anyone else. Looking at each other directly keeps us completely drawn into each other. I can see the passion and the feelings. And I can feel the heat coming from him just through his eyes.
Eye contact can be very sensual. I feel like I've grown addicted to it. It somewhat brave and dirty, yet open and loving. And I like to think my man just enjoys me looking him in the eye while he fucks me perfectly.
<3 Dirty Blog's Girl
Welcome to my world.. There's a time and place for raw hard charging sex, but then there's the tender kisses, the soft caress, deep looks woman adore. Never be ashamed of being a woman...
ReplyDeleteYou're absolutely right! I sometimes try to push back all my romance and lovey-dovey feelings but they're always visible. And a beautiful part of me. :D <3 DBG
Deletehiding. i never thought of that. i shall have to think on this a while. thank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThanks for commenting Fondles! I think for me, at least, it was definitely hiding. For others, it could just be preference... for more confident sexual beings anyway... <3 DBG
DeleteY'know, I find it interesting how some people find simple eye contact during oral, or even cuddling, to be somehow dirty.
ReplyDeleteY'see, with a gaze as intense as mine, I can understand how certain people get intimidated. BUT, in the middle of workin' someone over...or bein' worked over?
Freakin' smokin'-hot dangerous.
And it's vice versa, look me in the eye and there's nothin' but hunger and lust? Yeaaaaah, NOTHIN' gets my engines revved harder~! If not the perfect coup de grace.
I understand everyone has their individual tastes...but I agree with ya, DBG.
Nothin' better.
I wonder if there are any men who don't like it? DB loves me looking straight at him ;) <3 DBG
DeleteThanks for the responses everyone! I was a little worried about posting this. I felt it might be a little too soft and mushy but DB convinced me to publish it. I really appreciate your thoughts! :)
ReplyDelete<3 DBG
Love this post... eye contact can be so amazing!
ReplyDeleteThanks a bunch Ms. B! It certainly can! :) <3 DBG
DeleteI think I have express my preference to visual stimulation before. Eye contact, watching her body react to my touch.
ReplyDeleteThe feel of a deep thrust as your eyes fixate into each other. And yes, males love when the eye contact is on them, but the other way around, Mmmm... I also agree with PoeticEstrus and DB....
The only thing that would of made this post even better, is hearing what DB had to say... hehe .... Great post either way DBG .....
Thank you! Yeah, he's been busy but I've been a good little girlfriend and nagging him to get with it! lol :D <DBG
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ReplyDeleteThank you! I shall! <3 DBG
DeleteRough, hair-pulling, ass-spanking sex or slow, intense, let-me-into-your-soul sex, they're both better with eye contact. It strips you bare until nothing but you and that person is left and makes climax so much better.
ReplyDeleteGreat post!